The
WOMAN’S GUIDE to INTERNET DATING
(Why Some Women Cannot Find Good Men on
Dating Sites!)
Internet Dating is a multi-billion dollar a year
industry. People of all colors, nationalities, religions, genders and creeds
all are hoping and longing to find their true love.
However, for many women, they are discouraged with
internet dating because they just cannot seem to find their legendary Prince
Charming, or their religious equivalent of Ruth’s good man by the name of Boaz,
the Christian’s Prince Charming.
Now, is there something many of these women are doing
wrong? I have to say a resounding YES THERE IS!
Now Here is finally a GUIDE for women to use to
understand the mindset of men. Now this is not a 100% foolproof answer because
we all are different. But for any woman looking to find a good man either on
the internet, These are the steps women must
change in themselves in order to find the man of their dreams.
Now ladies, you
have to be able to accept CONSTRUCTIVE criticism! If you can’t, then you will
continue to do the same things over and over expecting a different result that
will NEVER COME….
That is the definition of relationship “insanity!”
So you
want to know the truth ladies? Read the steps below! I hope it enlightens you
to how REAL men and PLAYERS think! Enjoy!
INTERNET DATE SITE NO-NO’S FOR WOMEN!
1. PHOTOS
(a.):
Ladies, if you have 20 photos of you from the NECK up but not one photo
of your body?
Ladies that is a “RED-FLAG” to most men! For that doesn’t say you
are a virtuous woman, oh no! It says you are not happy with your physique and
you are hoping that some man will look at your pretty face and therefore
contact you. This makes most men very angry because men do not like surprises.
So your ad will usually be overlooked by Good men.
2. PHOTOS
(b.) An Ad but no Photo???—
Ladies, come-on, just like in the example above men do
not like surprises! Women have to understand that “MEN” are “VISUAL!” Did you
get that ladies? Men look at what they “SEE” first before they read your
profiles or want to find out your mindset. So that lame ass excuse that most
women give us, that they don’t like to put their photos out in public is a
bunch of BULL! So if very few guys are answering you. You now know why! Think
about it, how many profiles did you ladies actually answered without a photo?
Hmmm? Don’t be hypocrites!
3. PHOTOS
(c.) Posting photos with other people.
Now ladies, if you were looking and your
best friend were looking for employment, would you take her to apply for the
one job opening with you? Of course not! So why on earth would you post photos
with you with other people? Again, MEN ARE VISUAL! DUH!
Men will naturally go for the PRETTIEST or
the YOUNGEST, or the woman with the best features in the photo.
So stop taking pictures with your girlfriends and co-workers
or else, you may get an insensitive guy asking you if they can have your
girlfriend’s number or email! Yikes!
4. PHOTOS
(c.)
Taking a Photo with your Attractive Younger and sexy Daughters! No! No! No!
The most
ASININE thing a woman can do is be OLDER and post a photo with your attractive
20-ish sexy daughter standing next to you? Are you serious?
Ladies, I’m just
keeping it real with you! That’s like a “BEFORE & AFTER” picture in the
minds of men.
Ladies, we are not talking about underage children, that's just creepy and sick! We are talking about your super pretty and sexy LEGAL DAUGHTERS! Real men do not want the pressure of getting involved with you and in the back of their minds they really are wishing they met the 20=ish daughter instead. Now jerks will go for this just hoping for a porno fantasy to happen with your daughters. Beware of these type of men and most of all raise your daughters correctly to be respectable ladies not to walk around any man in their panties or else you may come home and see the Playa's club scene where Diamond finds her man in bed with her cousin! yikes!
4. PHOTOS
(d.) GHETTO BOOTY SHOTS!
I can’t tell you how many ladies have sent me booty shot
photos and actually think that a REAL MAN would take them seriously. Now
ladies, every man likes a fine butt and yes we would like to see the definition
of your butt. But at least show us on the sly. LOL!
If most of your pictures are CLUB or booty shots then that tells REAL MEN, that you are not WIFE material, you are BOOTY CALL material and, depending on how nice your BOOTY is, we may take you up on the sex because, come on? That is what you PRESENTED us with. Not that you had a P.H.D. or a BEAUTIFUL MIND.
Nope, your pictures said, LOOK AT ‘DIS BOO-TAAAY and come ‘GET IT!” And we might call to cash in that invitation. So don’t get mad or call any man a “DOG” when we try to pressure you into sex. That is what you advertised! Deal with it or CHANGE your THOUGHTS process ladies!
If most of your pictures are CLUB or booty shots then that tells REAL MEN, that you are not WIFE material, you are BOOTY CALL material and, depending on how nice your BOOTY is, we may take you up on the sex because, come on? That is what you PRESENTED us with. Not that you had a P.H.D. or a BEAUTIFUL MIND.
Nope, your pictures said, LOOK AT ‘DIS BOO-TAAAY and come ‘GET IT!” And we might call to cash in that invitation. So don’t get mad or call any man a “DOG” when we try to pressure you into sex. That is what you advertised! Deal with it or CHANGE your THOUGHTS process ladies!
5. PHOTOS:
(e.) Ladies, I beg you! Stop taking photos of your pets, places you have
visited and your darn feet or shoes! We want to see YOU and nothing else but FULL
BODY SHOTS of you! All that other crap we will see if we connect!
6. PHOTOS:
(f.) FROWNING Looking ANGRY PICTURES?
This should be self-explanatory but for some reason women cannot get it. Why in the HELL would any man want to contact a FROWNING or SCOWLING woman? What sense does that make? If you cannot even straighten your face to smile and be “inviting” why would any reasonably intelligent man want to deal with your attitude problem. That alone says you are NUTZ! And not worth the drama and that you are SINGLE for a REASON! Then if a man is foolish enough to try, she will get an attitude because you ask her why she is frowning? Wow??
This should be self-explanatory but for some reason women cannot get it. Why in the HELL would any man want to contact a FROWNING or SCOWLING woman? What sense does that make? If you cannot even straighten your face to smile and be “inviting” why would any reasonably intelligent man want to deal with your attitude problem. That alone says you are NUTZ! And not worth the drama and that you are SINGLE for a REASON! Then if a man is foolish enough to try, she will get an attitude because you ask her why she is frowning? Wow??
7. PHOTOS
(g.) TOO MUCH MAKEUP!
Ladies, especially my Nubian wonderful sisters! Too much makeup is a sign to a man that you need too much darn attention Which is clearly a side that you have LOW self esteem! tells a man that you are trying to hide something!
If you are HIDING freckles, or moles, or discoloration blemishes under all of that makeup. Then you are purposely deceiving us hoping that your personality will win us over instead. That NEVER WORKS LADIES!
If you start a relationship OFF with a LIE, then you are not trustworthy!
Here is something you may not know ladies, Too much clown makeup especially shaving your darn eyebrows off and DRAWING those weird lines on your face makes a few of you look like Transvestites!
Now this is not to insult you. It’s just that in this day, you have to be careful because Transvestites are liars too and may not tell you that they are a Tranny.
Ladies, especially my Nubian wonderful sisters! Too much makeup is a sign to a man that you need too much darn attention Which is clearly a side that you have LOW self esteem! tells a man that you are trying to hide something!
If you are HIDING freckles, or moles, or discoloration blemishes under all of that makeup. Then you are purposely deceiving us hoping that your personality will win us over instead. That NEVER WORKS LADIES!
If you start a relationship OFF with a LIE, then you are not trustworthy!
Here is something you may not know ladies, Too much clown makeup especially shaving your darn eyebrows off and DRAWING those weird lines on your face makes a few of you look like Transvestites!
Now this is not to insult you. It’s just that in this day, you have to be careful because Transvestites are liars too and may not tell you that they are a Tranny.
8. PHOTOS
(g.) LYING ABOUT YOUR REAL WEIGHT:
LADIES, the biggest pet peeve to men is YOU LIARS who will not tell the truth about your weight! SLIM, ATHLETIC, or about average is what most men are looking for. Not to say that men do not like THINK or big and beautiful women.
HOWEVER, let’s keep it real most women look at the SIX PACK having man over the chubby guy first. So why do you do this but are hypocrites?
Ladies the more WEIGHT YOU HAVE the LESS CHANCES of finding a man. For again WE are visual.
HOW MANY fat women lie in their profiles claiming they are either ABOUT AVERAGE or THICK? Answer: Most!
These are usually the ones who only take NECK SHOTS and up photos. Then when we meet you, it’s a whole other story!
MOST WOMEN do not look like their photos that is why we require SO MANY PICTURES. No, it’s not that we are dogs, we just know that many women will find their most appealing photo-shopped or edited picture to post. Which is not who you are on a daily basis. This makes you a LIAR to a man. Ladies so stop lying thinking that your pretty face or boobs hanging out will be enough.
NO, it’s unfair to TRICK us into getting to know your mind first then hoping that what we have in a mental connection will overcome what you look like physically. You start off a relationship with a lie, then you are a liar! Plain and simple!
LADIES, the biggest pet peeve to men is YOU LIARS who will not tell the truth about your weight! SLIM, ATHLETIC, or about average is what most men are looking for. Not to say that men do not like THINK or big and beautiful women.
HOWEVER, let’s keep it real most women look at the SIX PACK having man over the chubby guy first. So why do you do this but are hypocrites?
Ladies the more WEIGHT YOU HAVE the LESS CHANCES of finding a man. For again WE are visual.
HOW MANY fat women lie in their profiles claiming they are either ABOUT AVERAGE or THICK? Answer: Most!
These are usually the ones who only take NECK SHOTS and up photos. Then when we meet you, it’s a whole other story!
MOST WOMEN do not look like their photos that is why we require SO MANY PICTURES. No, it’s not that we are dogs, we just know that many women will find their most appealing photo-shopped or edited picture to post. Which is not who you are on a daily basis. This makes you a LIAR to a man. Ladies so stop lying thinking that your pretty face or boobs hanging out will be enough.
NO, it’s unfair to TRICK us into getting to know your mind first then hoping that what we have in a mental connection will overcome what you look like physically. You start off a relationship with a lie, then you are a liar! Plain and simple!
9. TATTOOS:
Ladies, yes there are some sexy tattoos.
If you are looking for a fortune 500 business man type. Your tattoos are a turn-off! Why? Because most tattoos look “GHETTO” and if you are a black or Hispanic lady it diminishes your chances of finding that 6 figure Black or Hispanic man greatly.
Think about it, most black men have to work TWICE as hard to prove that they didn’t get the job because of “AFFIRMATIVE ACTION”.
So if he has a job function which requires you to wear say a strapless evening gown etc. In a black man’s mind, there is nothing that makes him lose credibility more in the eyes of their Caucasian counterparts as having a woman with tattoos on her BREAST, NECK, EAR or LEG. & the TRAMP STAMP tattoo?
Ladies, isn’t the NAME Tramp, for this type of tattoo self-explanatory?
Sorry ladies, you may think this is petty but you did ask for the truth right? POOKIE and RAY-RAY will still call you though. ARRRGH!
Most are not!!!
If you are looking for a fortune 500 business man type. Your tattoos are a turn-off! Why? Because most tattoos look “GHETTO” and if you are a black or Hispanic lady it diminishes your chances of finding that 6 figure Black or Hispanic man greatly.
Think about it, most black men have to work TWICE as hard to prove that they didn’t get the job because of “AFFIRMATIVE ACTION”.
So if he has a job function which requires you to wear say a strapless evening gown etc. In a black man’s mind, there is nothing that makes him lose credibility more in the eyes of their Caucasian counterparts as having a woman with tattoos on her BREAST, NECK, EAR or LEG. & the TRAMP STAMP tattoo?
Ladies, isn’t the NAME Tramp, for this type of tattoo self-explanatory?
Sorry ladies, you may think this is petty but you did ask for the truth right? POOKIE and RAY-RAY will still call you though. ARRRGH!
10.
PROFILE: (a.) profile names:
Ladies, if there is some inventive name such as: PRETTY GIRL 101 or, SEXY lady4u or anything where it’s all about your self-promotion. This says to real men, that she needs “VALIDATION” A real lady doesn’t have to tell us she is pretty, or sexy or a queen etc. That is our job to tell you not for you to convince us.
Ladies, if there is some inventive name such as: PRETTY GIRL 101 or, SEXY lady4u or anything where it’s all about your self-promotion. This says to real men, that she needs “VALIDATION” A real lady doesn’t have to tell us she is pretty, or sexy or a queen etc. That is our job to tell you not for you to convince us.
11.
PROFILE ( b.)
Ladies, actually say something in your profiles.
There is nothing worse than a lady TOO LAZY to post her thoughts in a profile but will put: ASK ME and I will tell you later?” HELL NO! That means I have to waste time contacting you and waiting for a response. When outside of your physical beauty, we may be on opposite sides of desires.
Ladies, actually say something in your profiles.
There is nothing worse than a lady TOO LAZY to post her thoughts in a profile but will put: ASK ME and I will tell you later?” HELL NO! That means I have to waste time contacting you and waiting for a response. When outside of your physical beauty, we may be on opposite sides of desires.
12.
PROFILE ( c.) OPINIONATED:
How many times have we read profiles where women show how much “ATTITUDE” they have in their profiles. Ladies, if you start your profile off with words such as:
“I’M HONEST TO A FAULT”
or
I’m very “OPINIONATED”
or any such ridiculous statements. There is not one REASONABLY INTELLIGENT man on earth that is going to deal with you.
Nope this tells men that if you don’t agree, you will argue fuss and fight to the bitter end.
There is a phrase ladies must learn from their grandmothers and that is:
Many women will never get this point. For they will say:
To this I will say. “C’YA! And you will still be alone wondering why your girlfriend has a man on Valentine’s Day while your dumb behind is eating Chunky Monkey Ice cream looking at the lifetime channel all by your lonesome!
Common sense isn’t that common huh? Smh!
How many times have we read profiles where women show how much “ATTITUDE” they have in their profiles. Ladies, if you start your profile off with words such as:
“I’M HONEST TO A FAULT”
or
I’m very “OPINIONATED”
or any such ridiculous statements. There is not one REASONABLY INTELLIGENT man on earth that is going to deal with you.
Honest to a fault means you have a big mouth and will never be a candidate for a SUBMISSIVE wife.
Nope this tells men that if you don’t agree, you will argue fuss and fight to the bitter end.
There is a phrase ladies must learn from their grandmothers and that is:
“You can be 100% right and still be wrong!”
Many women will never get this point. For they will say:
"I’M SORRY this is WHO I AM! Deal with it or move on!"
To this I will say. “C’YA! And you will still be alone wondering why your girlfriend has a man on Valentine’s Day while your dumb behind is eating Chunky Monkey Ice cream looking at the lifetime channel all by your lonesome!
Common sense isn’t that common huh? Smh!
13.
AGE: LYING ABOUT YOUR AGE:
Other than a woman lying about her weight, This is one of the biggest problems men face. Women, please stop the lies about your age.
Stop believing the games men say to get in your darn drawers! Time and time again I’ve heard horror stories from men who have said, a woman said she was 31 but looked every bit of 61!!!! YIKES!!!
When confronted with this blatant lie, women love to claim that they could not find any men their own age. Now if you want a younger man, then just say so!
Stop lying and then expecting us to take you seriously!
Other than a woman lying about her weight, This is one of the biggest problems men face. Women, please stop the lies about your age.
YES! You do look your age!
Stop believing the games men say to get in your darn drawers! Time and time again I’ve heard horror stories from men who have said, a woman said she was 31 but looked every bit of 61!!!! YIKES!!!
When confronted with this blatant lie, women love to claim that they could not find any men their own age. Now if you want a younger man, then just say so!
Stop lying and then expecting us to take you seriously!
14.
Un-Reasonable Expectations:
Now this is the most important for you ladies! I’ve had women say, they are looking for a man that,
makes 6 figures, is TALL, DARK & HANDSOME, has to be “slim” with a SIX PACK, cannot be under 5’6 all because she likes to wear 5 inch hills?
He has to have his OWN CAR, his OWN house, NO KIDS, a 401-k plan, loves God, loves his mama, cannot be a mama’s boy, must treat you like a Queen, must be a RUFF NECK, but a GENTLEMAN at the same time? Huh?
He must not smoke or drink can’t have any female friends, must want to spend all his time with her, but must not be “CHEAP” because she likes the finer things in life, and if I ask him to pay a bill I he should WANT TO DO IT just because I’m his woman. Huh?
Now ladies there is SOOOOO much wrong with this type of mindset but let’s say you find this imaginary man. What then?
Ladies, if a man has even half of these qualities. Then that makes him a ‘M.V.P. candidate and he knows his value.
So here is the question to you.
No, think about that question.
Out of the thousands of single women out there,
WHY YOU over them?
I mean, what do you have to OFFER this brother that makes you a M.V.P woman.
Now this is the most important for you ladies! I’ve had women say, they are looking for a man that,
makes 6 figures, is TALL, DARK & HANDSOME, has to be “slim” with a SIX PACK, cannot be under 5’6 all because she likes to wear 5 inch hills?
He has to have his OWN CAR, his OWN house, NO KIDS, a 401-k plan, loves God, loves his mama, cannot be a mama’s boy, must treat you like a Queen, must be a RUFF NECK, but a GENTLEMAN at the same time? Huh?
He must not smoke or drink can’t have any female friends, must want to spend all his time with her, but must not be “CHEAP” because she likes the finer things in life, and if I ask him to pay a bill I he should WANT TO DO IT just because I’m his woman. Huh?
Now ladies there is SOOOOO much wrong with this type of mindset but let’s say you find this imaginary man. What then?
Ladies, if a man has even half of these qualities. Then that makes him a ‘M.V.P. candidate and he knows his value.
So here is the question to you.
WHY WOULD HE CHOOSE YOU?
No, think about that question.
Out of the thousands of single women out there,
WHY YOU over them?
I mean, what do you have to OFFER this brother that makes you a M.V.P woman.
Sad
to say, most women who have this delusional mindset. Do not bring anything to
the table. If he makes 6 figures, then shouldn’t you too?
If he has a six pack abs, shouldn’t you be SLIM & TRIM too? And how in the hell a woman can think a THUG can be a husband and gentlemen is as ridiculous as a man thinking a WHORE can be a HOUSEWIFE?
So ladies don’t ask for DOM PERIGNON from a man when you are bringing cheap beer to the table.
We can COOK, CLEAN etc for ourselves before you. WHY would we invest our energies and money into someone that is not an M.V.P. candidate?
Have you single women noticed how happy that pretty woman is with that SHORT or heavyset OR Joe the Plumber while you are still single waiting on your IMAGINARY man?
As you get older your choices diminish. All because you were too silly to accept that brother with a decent job, who actually likes you for who you are, and will share what little he has with you.
Oh but that GOOD guy you don’t like. SMH!
So if that’s the case. I wish you well as your BREAST begin to sag, the wrinkles come and the bitterness grows as you either switch sides to LESBIANISM or just go back to your horrible ex boyfriends who will keep doing you badly all because YOU are the problem.
I hope this helps you ladies understand the mentality of men.. And good luck on your search.
The “Patrick-Perspective!”
Come and Join our group on facebook at: CHRISTIANS WHO ARE FINALLY AWAKE AND KNOW THE TRUTH ABOUT THE DECEPTION... Take care...
If he has a six pack abs, shouldn’t you be SLIM & TRIM too? And how in the hell a woman can think a THUG can be a husband and gentlemen is as ridiculous as a man thinking a WHORE can be a HOUSEWIFE?
So ladies don’t ask for DOM PERIGNON from a man when you are bringing cheap beer to the table.
We can COOK, CLEAN etc for ourselves before you. WHY would we invest our energies and money into someone that is not an M.V.P. candidate?
Have you single women noticed how happy that pretty woman is with that SHORT or heavyset OR Joe the Plumber while you are still single waiting on your IMAGINARY man?
As you get older your choices diminish. All because you were too silly to accept that brother with a decent job, who actually likes you for who you are, and will share what little he has with you.
Oh but that GOOD guy you don’t like. SMH!
So if that’s the case. I wish you well as your BREAST begin to sag, the wrinkles come and the bitterness grows as you either switch sides to LESBIANISM or just go back to your horrible ex boyfriends who will keep doing you badly all because YOU are the problem.
I hope this helps you ladies understand the mentality of men.. And good luck on your search.
The “Patrick-Perspective!”
Come and Join our group on facebook at: CHRISTIANS WHO ARE FINALLY AWAKE AND KNOW THE TRUTH ABOUT THE DECEPTION... Take care...
